I need help please. There is this girl named Meghan that I have loved for over 2 years now but i don't know how to tell her.
Could you give us some more info, please?
How long have you known her ~ just the two years, or longer?
How do you know her? ~ Work, school, college, something else?
How well do you know her? ~ Is she a 'dream girl' for you, or do you really know her?
How old are you both?
We never talk every now and then we will say hi but other than that that's all.
Well, that's a start. It means that you could possibly, in the right circumstances, add something to that 'Hi' ~ maybe a rosebud, as suggested by Carl.
You could ask her a question.
That's often the most straightforward way of starting a conversation.
Depending on the situation, you could ask if she had a good weekend and what she did.
You could ask if she has brothers or sisters.
You could ask about her holidays, or her plans for the future, or her hobbies, or whether she likes sports and what teams she follows, or about the music she likes and whether she has been to any concerts.
Make a list of these options for yourself to remember.
Then, when you meet up with her, or happen to be in her vicinity, you can start a conversation.
I just want to sweep her off of her feet holding her in my arms while it is snowing out and just whisper to ehr that I love her. her beautiful brown eyes her smile, her laugh EVVERYTHING.
That sounds very romantic.
Sometimes the dream is more obviously 'romantic' than the reality, yet the reality turns out to be much better.
Maybe she likes you, too, or maybe not. I don't know and neither do you, but by being friendly you may find out.
Please help me. I would like to start just as friends.
Yes, good idea.
So just be friendly.
That 'hi' is an opener.
Smile.
Ask how she is.
If she is going your way, perhaps you could walk with her.
Perhaps you might find that you have interests in common to talk about ~ films, music, etc.
Talk to her.
Good luck!
After two years of loving someone, to whom you have only ever said 'hi', I can understand that.
But you need to make the relationship real.
It may turn into friendship, or romance, or you may just become friendly aquaintances, or it may fizzle into nothing at all ~ but at least you will have tried and you will know.
