Well, if he 'just doesn't know who he wants to go out with', know one else can make his mind up for him.
I know a story though, about a friend of someone I know. She couldn't make up her mind between two boys. Then one was in an accident. She was so horrified at the thought of losing him that she suddenly realised which one she really loved.
When it comes to it, while there may be more than one person you could live with, there's usually only one you couldn't live without.
He could try to imagine how he'd feel if one of the girls were to emigrate for ever ~ which would upset him most?
Anyway, at 14 it's too early to be making important decisions about relationships. People of that age are falling in and out of 'love' all the time.
