in the beginning of my relationship with my fiancee i used to talk to my ex. but we broke up becuase well i was pretty much brain washed lets put it that way. i broke up with my ex while he was in boot camp for the navy for fear of myself. and he would call and i would answer and get crazy calls about him buying a gun and wanting to show it to my mother things like that. ive been with keith my fiancee for almost 5 years now and my ex still tries to get in contact with me. we have some mutual friends still and recently one told me about this blog thing on the ex's myspace that the title is my initials and it talks about murder so yea....no contact with him!