Hi.

Before we go any further, can I please remind you of the rule that no bad language is allowed on this forum.
Thank you.

As for this relationship, it sounds to me that when she is with you, she wants you, but when she is with him, in spite of her criticisms, she's not so sure. 'She doesn't know what she wants'.

What do you do?
Do you just wait until she has made up her mind?
Or do you say 'if you want me you must know it ~ and if you don't know it, then you can't really want me'?

Only you can decide what is the best option for you.


"The secret of success is constancy to purpose" - Benjamin Disraeli.