Thanks people, didn't think I'd get much help from people I don't know but, really has helped
Well I spent last night basically thinking. I got upset, and I tried to get everything out. I woke up a lot better.
I can see how she what she means by when she feels pressured. I think for now we just need our own space. Maybe we can start talking after the stress before christmas.
We've both been really busy lately with college exams.
Maybe around christmas when exams are over, she'll have time to think things through.
And yeah, it still does hurt but, I love her enough to stay away from her. If she wants space then I will let her have her space. think I need a bit of space to, develop a bit of independence for myself.
Thanks for help guys
