Breaking Up :
Should We Break Up? :
As soon as XXXX changes ...

It´s easy to get into a situation where you keep waiting for things to change. You can say ´As soon as we get a house´ or ´as soon as we have a baby´ or ´as soon as we make a bit more money.´ These milestones will come and go, but the underlying problems will still be there. This is a very, very common thought pattern, and you might be amazed at how many people get married, and have kids, and buy houses, for exactly these reasons.

Sit back and deal with your relationship *now*. What at this very moment can you do to make it better. If there is no way to have a good relationship now, in the current situation, then there is no guarantee that simply changing the surroundings or adding more complexity is going to make anything improve.

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