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#377218 07/27/09 02:53 AM
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Hey guys. I know it's been like forever since I've last posted on here, but life's life. So lemme just say I hope everyone is doing well

So get this, one of my friends(which is a girl), a guy she likes is flirting with her, and she likes it and all but she wonders if he's really flirting or just showing a sweet gesture that points to some flirting manner. If he pursue her more how should she pursue him back without making it...so called overly excessive.


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Sorry forgot the question.

What do you think she should do? She li0kes him but she doesn't want him to know that. (If I remember correctly.)


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Hi again Lee smile

Flirting can be seen as innocent fun, or as leading someone on.
It, thus, can have both positive & negative connotations.

Your friend needs to be careful how she handles the situation, so that nothing is misunderstood.

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She likes him but she doesn't want him to know that.

I don't understand this???

Last edited by PDM; 07/27/09 10:48 PM.

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Hey PDM. Good to be back.

I didn't really under the whole concept of her not wanting the guy to know she likes him cause isn't that whole point in flirting?

Here's another question, DO you think trying to not letting him know she likes him is a bad thing, even though she does like him?


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I think I'd need to know a bit more about them first smile


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