I met this guy online (not the same guy from my previous thread ^_^), chatted about a month then finally met in person mid May. Our first date went great, we had a lot to talk about. I could see him as a good friend, but maybe nothing more at the time.
I was super busy that month so told him I could see him a month later after my finals. Within that month, we still texted once in a while to say hi.
Fast forward to mid June we went on our 2nd date. We both had an amazing time, we shared a very passionate good-bye kiss at the end of the night. I thought he’s a very nice guy & especially a great gentleman.
A week after that (last weekend), we had our 3rd date. This time we felt so much more comfortable with each other. I started to like him a lot more and we spent quite some time at his place in the end of the day. During our steamy, intimate moments, he told me he wanted to fvck me (sorry that’s the word he used). So I told him I only do that in very serious relationship (because we were not even officially exclusive at the time)...He then said “you know this is serious & you’re my girlfriend now”. My monthly cycle just ended at the time, so I told him I can't just yet. Besides, technically we only really dated for a week - because after the 1st date we barely contacted each other.
We live about 40 minutes apart (with traffic at least 1 hr) so we only see each other on the weekends. Now what bothers me is that we barely have any kind of real communication. He doesn’t really call at all, he’d text me maybe at night....but then it takes him forever to reply so I get kinda discouraged. I know he’s not busy, because his routine at night is just watching TV/movies for HOURS. I’m not a nagging xxxxx or some clingy girlfriend at all. But in a relationship, I need to have some sort of communication (if not on the phone then texting is fine too, we both have unlimited texting)....Especially we’re just in the beginning of getting to know each other, and we only get to hang out once a week. None of my past relationships were like this at all, shoot I don't even feel like I have a boyfriend...
I’m just having some doubts whether or not he’s interested in getting to know me. I thought he was a very genuine guy when we went out, but now I’m just not so sure anymore.
Please share your thoughts, what do you think about him?
Last edited by PDM; 07/02/10 07:06 AM.
