ok...well my boyfriend and me were together for 2 yrs and 3 months...the problem started when i wanted to go to a party and he didn't want to (he wanted to go to a different party)...well we ended up going to the party i wanted to go to and after he dropped me off and got home, he changed and went to the party he originally wanted to go to. He met a girl there and the girl got his number from his cousin during the week. well he didn't tell me about this (i had to find out by some friends) i confronted him and he told me that he knew i would find out about it sooner or later. he wanted to break up and blamed me for the break up. he told me he was tired of the arguing and couldn't take my jealousy anymore!!
this is the guy that i wanted to marry one day and even though he did this i was still willing to forgive him. i pleaded and begged and did everything but he didn't want to come back to me. I don't know what to do but i feel like my life was torn away from me!!! i really wanted our relationship to lead us to marriage!!! i miss him more as each day goes by and it makes me even more jealous to think that im over here crying for him while he is talkin to this girl...he lives here in south carolina and she lives in charlotte!! he is 19 and she is 21!!! Im 18 going on 19...EVERYBODY tells me that it won't work out for them and that he'll be back begging for me to take him back but how he's acting i really don't think he will do that.
yes we've had our fights here and there but nothing this big!! just to add in...when the other girl started texting him he asked me for a "break" but i didn't want to give it to him (i still didn't no that he had gone out) because i was afraid to loose him! now look at what happened!!!!!! how can i get him back?!?!?!?!?!?
