I don't know if this is were I should have but it made enough sence to me... So my relationship with this guy is really confusing, so I'll try to explain it to the best of my abilities...

So we have been romantically involved with each other for about six months now. But were not dating, and he has even told me that he will not be able to ask me out, but I understand his reasoning and accept it. But we do every thing people who are dating and don't like PDA do, from occationally holding hands to those three words to more physical adventures.

So as you could imagine we have been getting alot of xxxx about this from others. Things like he's using me and that I'm a slut. And untill now we've been able to ignore it and enjoy our beautiful relationship. But now were starting to loose friends because of it...

He is extreamly attached to these friends, and my best friend is getting really jelous. But we love eachother a have even talked about getting married and having kids in the future, so we dont want to give up what we have, but we also dont want to loose our friends or listen to them bad mouth the other side.

I JUST DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!

Last edited by PDM; 02/02/10 02:38 AM.