oh you mean when we meet get him to show me some id and stuff? but ya my aunt met someone off the net too and she's been living with him for a few years now and she seems really happy so im not too worried that this guy is lieing or anything...and my friend doesnt think so either and she has had experiance with meeting them off the net....shes seen the way he talks and stuff and even she thinks he's one of the good ones...shes also the one whos gonna be with me when we do meet smile