thanks both of you for this info, but i agree totally with you both... he needs to stand up and tell his family what HE wants....i dont think the family are thinking what if i do it again they are thining what a [censored] and how could u forgive her ....
i gave him his space yesterday and both times i talked to him he was the first one to contact me ...i think, i hope that is a sign as it was soo hard for me not to message him....but he messaged me first....
