Hi lovebuzz1024 smile

Do you mind saying how this all came about?

I hope that you won't mind these questions, but the answers may help to clarify a few things.

Is it an apartment that you share rent for in three equal parts?

Did the three of you ago together to rent the place or did one of you already have it?

You say that you were room-mates ~ when was that?

Did Dan stay over then?

Did your fiance stay over then?

Does anyone else ever stay nights?

Did she stop inviting you out when you got engaged?

Would your fiance mind if you went out on girl nights ~ and does she know whether or not he would?

Does she feel left out, having to live with 'a couple'?

Does she have any complaints about the situiation?

Have you ever discussed any of this together ~ just the two of you, or with your fiance?

How does your fiance feel about sharing with one of your girlfriends?

When you decided to get a flat with her, did she know that you were engaged and that your fiance would be coming too?

Any more relevant info?

It will be easier to respond with a fuller story. smile

Good luck ~ it sounds awkward.

Last edited by PDM; 08/12/08 03:30 PM. Reason: typo

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