sal--that was a little harsh. being a female yourself you should know that this isn't true. women aren't evil creatures who seek to rub salt into people's wounds. this woman is clearly way too immature to be in a descent relationship. whatever issues she has, she needs to work out in therapy--you neither deserve nor have the obligation to be her punching bag/firing board/ whatever the bleep she wants from you. she's trying to have it both ways--keep the abusive bad boy she wants, while still having the good guy to run back to. you deserve better. i'm behind you 100% with the changing the phone number idea. do not call her again (my advice, i don't mean to sound like your mother
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