Hi and welcome LostInLove38 & Coleslaw
Yes, LostinLove, I think you do need to communicate first and find out what is really going on in his head. Then you can decide, between you, what to do about it.
Re tattoos, maybe he doesn't want to discuss such matters with a 'rival'.
Maybe he's concerned that the 'ex-hubby' is still involved in your lives.
Men & women think & communicate differently. I really believe that most couples could benefit from reading up on the subject. I think the most well-known book is the Venus & Mars one.
Last edited by PDM; 07/07/07 01:30 AM.
