Hi NMC
Sorry to hear about your problems.
You have a marriage and children ~ this needs to be sorted out.
It reminds me of stories I have heard about a website we have in England called 'Friends Reunited'. It enables old schoolfriends etc to get back in touch ~ and it is causing problems. People are meeting their 'first loves' again, and it is interfering with their marriages.
Everyone seems to yearn for youth and innocence and those days when they had no responsibilities and when emotions ran high and everything was new and exciting. Meeting up with friends from the past gives people a buzz. Meeting up with old flames can be even more exciting.
Sometimes these people have affairs, sometimes they actually pair up again; sometimes nothing much happens except for reminiscing. It looks as if your wife is back in the heady days of teenage love. But is it real? Probably not, because she says she loves and wants you, but this is an exciting adventure for her ~ and a potentially dangerous one.
I recommend relationship counselling.
Have a look at these items to see what I mean:
http://www.divorceuk.com/pages/casestudies/friends.phphttp://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/uk/3616136.stm
