I am afraid it will hurt really bad

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
i am 16 years old, and my boy friend wants to have sex. I am afraid it will hurt really bad, but he doesnt care about that...he just wants his fun out of it. i would'n be so worried if i knew it wasn.t going to hurt. All of my friends have sex, and they treat me like im stupid just because i have never done it before. What should i tell my boy firend?

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If you are going to have sex be sure to have him use a new condom every time you have sex. For the first time there is a chance that it will hurt bad and you should warn him that if it does he has to stop when you tell him.

If you use tampons and if you can put your finger up your vagina, then there should be very little pain and possibly none at all.

If you do have pain, see this website:

Good luck! George

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