He says one thing and acts different
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I was in a relationship with this guy for 2 yrs. We broke up last septemeber when i found out he started talking with another girl. Out of nowhere he came up to me saying that he wanted a break..I felt as he was not coming back. I started bothering him and it really got him tired to the point that he told me he didn't want anything with me. We ended up sleeping together sept 11, 2005, december 26, 2005 both days he asked me...Recently we haven't seen eachother for a long time since dec 26 but i saw him this part friday and he got mad cuz i ignored him so he sent me a text saying "u better stop acting like u dont care" so we ended up sleeping together again. on october of last year i checked his email and i found out he slept with his baby's mom being with this other girl. They were planning on moving in together which i found very weird since they didn't get along well. Their break up involved violance and court. I keep asking him if he's with her but he won't answer my question. It would make it easier for me to move on. I'm really confused because i have hopes that he will come back to me but then i get sad when he rejects me. He said he wants to be single and he doesn't want me..But he says one thing and acts different...I don't know kown which way to take. Please help me?
It seems like he is using you for sex every now and then.
He has made it clear that he doesn't want to get back with you and you should believe him. He has no reason to lie about that.
Given the sad background of his baby's Mom you should be thankful to be away from him. Treat him as a friend but nothing more. Better yet, try to separate yourself from him completely.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com