Now I can barely get in touch with him at all
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
ok i understand that whoever you are you cant answer my question directly but im desperatly seeking some advice:
ok i just started dating this guy we met online and on our second date i ended up "speding the night" it just happened! i think that hes the best thing since sliced bread but im always getting mixed signals from him like when we are together we talk and he looks into my eyes and plays with my hair and snuggles up to me and it just feels so wonderfull! ive never felt this good before! he makes want to be a better me. ive got butterflies in my stomach and hes all i think about! BUT now that we slept together i dont know if hes just making these gestures in order for a "certain result" ya know. cause like before he opened my door and would call or IM me everyday he even left a voice message on my computer when i didnt call him back! now i can barely get in touch with him at all, im always waiting hoping that he calls and he doesnt keep our dates any more its kinda like "if you can get over here i would love to see you but if not it can wait till i get a couple more hours sleep!" and its hard for me to tell him how i feel or ask him myself cause like i said we just met!
It's too early to guess what his motivation is.
From what you say, he sounds like a "love them and leave them" type of guy. You may be facing some sadness in the near future.
Try, if you can, to get some verbal response from him on how he feels about you.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com