I have no idea what she wants
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
hello, my question is about my girlfriend. I have no idea what she wants. I basically dont even know who she is. But, I like her, alot, when Im around her i dont even know what to do or say, Its like my brain totally shuts down,then i feel like an idiot. i can talk to her for hours on the phone but when i see her in person i freeze up and cant say a word to her. The only time I see her is at lunch in school. I have no idea what she thinks about me. Her friends say she really likes me. Im always thinking about her. but i dont know what to do. What do i do?
Just like you, your g/f wants to be happy and for you to be happy.
Since you talk with her well on the phone, explain your problem to her and see if she has suggestions. Maybe the problem has to do with talking while eating. At your family dinner is conversation normal or not and do you participate? If not then that could explain why you don't talk at lunch with your girlfriend.
You and your g/f will be able to figure this out I'm sure. Do something really dumb like point at a sandwich and say "sandwich" and then she repeats "sandwich." It will probably make both of you relax so you can talk.
Relax and don't worry so much! George
-- from George
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