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Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male

I wrote to you guys about a week ago about my problem. I will resummarize what it is again to make things easier. Basically, I'm a freshman in highschool. I'm actually the age of a young sophomore though and most people tell me I look like a junior or a sophomore. So anyways this new foreign exchange student from Guadamala moved in 6 houses down from me. She will be here for a whole year. She's really nice and really pretty. She's been here for about 2 weeks now and her and I have become good friends. We talk every morning at the bus stop and on the bus all the way to school. We talk a little at lunch sometimes and in the afternoon we talk all the way back home. Then i walk her home and then i go home myself. The problem is that shes a senior. She doesn't look like one though she looks more like a junior or maybe a really old sophomore. Like I don't know if i should bother but I really am interested in her and not just like sexually like i care about her. I've listed here the positives and negatives i have on my side and going against me. I'll start with the negatives first. Ok she just turned 18 and i turned 15 a few months ago so shes a few months less than 3 years older than me. I'm not the greatest looking guy around. Like i'm not butt ugly but i'm not like dead sexy either. Shes really good looking so other guys (better looking than me with cars, money, seniors) will and have tried hooking up with her. Like last friday two guys asked her to go to the cheesecake factory but she couldn't cause she's visiting west virginia this weekend. However there are some positives in my favor. We live really close to eachother so we see eachother everyday and don't have to go out of our ways to do so. Like i could ask her if she wanted to come hang out at my house and it wouldnt seem like aggressive. We're good friends and we talk a lot. Like i give her a lot of spanish music because she likes spanish music. I'm always really nice to her and I make her laugh a lot. Like the first day she was here i offered to show her where her first class was and so i walked her to her first class. Also we have very similar personalities in that we are both playful. Then theres some stuff thats like i dont know if its good or bad. Like she was telling me that her ex bf in guadamala was always very serious. He would get jealous cause she had a lot of friends that were guys and he would yell at her. So now i dont know she might be looking for someone less aggressive and less needy. Since i'm younger she doesn't really have to worry about me being overpowering i think. I dont really get jealous or angry at girls. And like yeah i don't know. Please help. Like can you give your opinion like do you think i have a good chance?

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All you can do is keep trying.

Clearly she likes you and you have plenty of opportunity to see and talk with her. You should ask her to hang out at your house sometime.

You need to be a little aggressive before some older guy gets her. Have you asked her out to a movie or to eat out? Think about it.

Good luck! George

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