We're closer than when we were dating
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Well i broke up with my ex about a year and ahalf ago but the past year has been great we gotten alot closer than when we were actually dating. abd we have both aggreed on that and i always find my self thinking about her every 10-15 min of hte day. Now she knows this for sure because we had a talk and i let her know. then we talked about getting back together or leaving things where they are for right now and she said that she like where things are right now and that she can not do long distance again and when i come home we will see what ahppens. So i agreed and we still talk everyday. Now it seems as if she is moving on or something cause she puts up on her little profiles that she is looking for a serious relationship or dating or something. Now i know its only a only a online thing but it still gets to me and now i am starting to think is she really the one for me or should i just accept the fact that we may never be together again and move on but i want her back im in love with her. there is sometimes she shows me alot of attention and there are times i maynot even exsist so please help me i dont want to be wasting my time on a woman that may never be mine.
You do seem to have a very good relationship.
Your best bet is to keep doing what you are doing with her and strengthen your relationship by good friendship.
She doesn't want a long distance relationship so you will have to wait until you return before finding out whether you will get back together.
Are you wasting your time? Not if you really love her.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com