Lost Her for the Summer
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
There was this girl I really really liked at school, but i never asked her out because of fear. Now that summer is here I can never see her again, should I just give up, or should I try my hardest to find her and tell her how I feel?
People don't just vanish just because school is out. She's probably still living in the same place, right? So she is going to be all around town just like you are! If you liked her a lot, you know what sorts of hobbies and things she enjoys. So hang out at the local mall, go to the places that sell her hobby supplies and so on. Undoubtedly you'll run into her.
Also most people have email, so find out what hers is and drop her a line. There are all sorts of easy ways to get in touch with people, to keep up friendly contact. I would NOT find her and blurt out all your emotions!! The key to any great relationship is to base it on a great FRIENDSHIP. So find her and be FRIENDS with her and hang out and do things together. The rest will follow naturally, in time.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com