Wants more than friends
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
my situation is that i have known and liked this guy since the 6th grade, and now were both in 10th grade. We both didnt have many friends when we came to high school so we became really good friends. We are always with eachother, and we are more mature than other students, most of our conversations are slightly cynical and really sarcastic, its like thats the only way we know how to talk to each other. Im really really not sure if he likes me, Ive tried flirting with him more, but we each just end up walking together a lot and talking about our problems and families etc... ive openly expressed how i like some guys but not enough to go out with them, he doesnt talk much about people who he likes but ive seen him flirt. With me he is his normal self, he totally changes around certain girls. I know hes kind of shallow, but he also laughs and has fun with me. Im not even sure how to approach him on a "more then friends" level. Please help!
It's not always easy to go from friends to "more than."
Sometimes you just have to bite the bullet and ask the other person out.
Or at least go to a movie together.
Here are some tips that will help:
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com