I'm 18 and still a virgin
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
hi. im 18 and still a virgin. i met this really nice guy on the internet. we get on really well and he treats me like a princess. we havent slept together yet but im scared he will realise im a virgin still. when i was with my ex we never had sex but we used toys etc. i often used a vibrator which fully penetrated me. i used this so many times with my ex and i didnt bleed when penetrated. so basically as i didnt bleed with this toy do you think that i will bleed when i lose my virginity? it will be so embarassing if i do. i could always try and cover it up by sayin its my period but i really dont want to bleed on my first time. please give me some advice asap. i dont want this worry to ruin what me and this guy have. thanks xx
I'm going answer both your questions here in one place.
You are worrying too much about being a virgin. The man will probably be pleased by it. And, don't worry about bleeding. The odds are very much against it.
He is probably worrying about what you will think of him. Keep your eyes wide open, it is unusual for a man of 36 to date an 18 year old.
So meet him and hope for the best.
I hope it works out for you! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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