She tells me that she feels like she just wants to give herself to him

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Well here i am again. Im not sure if its been a week since my last e-mail or not but here goes. My GF as may remmeber has a co-worker who likes her. well after talking with her i finally overcame my jealousy issues. but i have come across another problem. it turns out that when he is near her she says that she starts to feel like she cannot control herself and just wants to do things with him, the kind of things we do together. I asked her how she really felt about him and she said that she likes him a lot. she tells me that she feels like she just wants to give herself to him. I just really don't know what to think, do, or feel for that matter. I what wondering what it is that i should do?. Advice
You are in a tough situation.

At least she is being honest with you. But that honesty must be eating you up!

You should probably ask her to promise to not do anything with him. Or, on the other hand, you could tell her you want a break because she has mixed feelings.

It really isn't that uncommon to feel attraction for co-workers so she shouldn't be faulted for that.

I'm not sure what the best approach is. Talk it over with her and get her opinion.

Good luck! George

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