I think maybe he was the one, but now its too late.
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I went out with a guy for 3 years and he was really great. it took me much longer to fall in love with him than him for me (like 4 months). we had problems but things were usually great. i sometimes got board with sex and i cheated on him 4 times in 3 years. i broke up with him to go away to school and didnt ask him to come because i wasnt sure i wanted that. Now we fight and have stoped speaking, i think he is totally over me and says im just annoying him. Its been 7 months since the break and i can't seem to get him out of my head, I cry and am depressed a lot and sometimes feel really panicy, I really dont know what to do. I think maybe he was the one, but now its too late. Getting him back is not really an option but what can i do for myself?
The best thing you can do for yourself is to see a professional counselor.
You are in college now, so call or go to the Student Health Services and ask to see a counselor.
That person can help you with the pain you are now suffering.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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