I really want him back to prove we are a good couple
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
What I don't understand, is that I never saw that something was going wrong in the relationship! He always told me we were ok, and things like that, after all we were looking for a house, and we were planning a vacation with christmas last year. So how could I have have had a chance if I never new there was something wrong? He never told me how he was feeling about our relationship, and then out of the blue he breaks-up with me (at this time he tells me his feelings) and he couldn't move faster out of the appartement and jump in the girls arms!!!
If I'd knew what he was feeling, we could have worked things out I believe...
That why I'm frustrated to never have gotten a chance, that's why I really want him back to prove we are a good couple.... Is there really no chance at all???
Thanks for all your help!
OK now I understand about wanting a chance.
It is regretable yet not atypical when a man dumps a woman without an adequate explanation. It's a terrible thing to do because it prevents closure which is an important part of grieving.
You may get him back if you can remain in contact with him (once a week) and don't push him away (only talk for 15 mins). Then if he sees the error of his way you will be standing close by.
He may not fully understand himself why he left you. Sometimes it takes a while before reality sets in. Perhaps it will settle in soon.
For your sake I hope it does! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com