We have been going back and forth lying to each other
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
My boyfriend and i have been together three years in February and all we seem to do is argue all the time. We have been going back and forth lying to eachother until we opened up recently and told everything to eachother. Since then the fights have been more constant and he even throws up things that i just told him about in my face while we are arguing. We cant go anywhere without him looking around to see if i am looking at another guy. He gets me so angry that once i even broke a glass in the restuarant after he said something to me about another guy. I dont know what to do. I havent cheated or lied to him since the first year and i have been honest ever since then. I dont know if we can work it out or if its not even worth it anymore. I am tired of being disrespected and disrespecting him back along with the constant crying and unhappiness but i love him. What should i do?
Don't allow yourself to get in a pattern of accepting verbal abuse.
That's what he is doing to you. And you are being drawn into it too.
Leave him behind and find someone new who will love and respect you as you should be.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com