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Should I follow my heart and try harder on this relationship?



Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
F o l l o w M y H e a r t ? o r M y M i n d ?? I have been close to this guy for 2 years. Not every morment has been good for us, but we have been taking it slowly to build a good relationship and to find trust in ach opther. After he kept asking me out for 2 years, I was finally starting to consider a serious dating with him. My problem here is that we had a huge conflict over the christmas to the end of the year season, and now we haven't been talking for 3 weeks. I know noone's perfect, and I know he's sorry. I'm in a challenge of making a right decision because I know he's regretting and trying to ask me back. He's probabry going through the same devastation that I went through after the Christmas. But on the other hand, I know that I told my self, when I felt heavily heart broken,to walk away and will not go back again. Then the ultimate questions occurs, "What mind tells or what heart tells?" He was the only one person that has come this much close to me that made me wanna trust again, after the heavy "love hang over" situation that I had. My every day was so dilight when he was in my life. If I know that this might turn into the best result after all, I'd definately try our love again. Is this a time that I should follow my heart and try harder on this realtionship? or is this a time that I should follow my mind and tell myself to grow up and move on? I'm very confused because I know this is a life-changing decision making and I want to get it right. What would be the most effective step for me to take right now?




RomanceClass.com Advice
You should listen to your heart.

Your heart is telling you that it is too soon to make a decision to break up with him... you need more time to figure it out.

So why not give him another chance and see what develops? If things go well then you will be delighted and if things don't go right you can still go your own way.

Good luck! George

-- from George
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