I'm not going to do her wrong she knows it
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Thanks for the advice I appreciate very much.But I have something else I want to know lately my ex has been staring at me likes she wants to say something to me.Even though we are in high school when we speak to each other she just stares at me as if she's trying to tell me something I don't know if she's telling me she misses me or what.I mean when she looks at me like that I can still see she loves me.But the real reason I want to be with her so much is because I don't want to see her hurt, pregant, or abused.Cause she said so herself I'm the best boyfriend she has ever had.I just don't want to loose her to someone else.But like I told her if she doesn't want to be with me then tell me and I'll walk away from it all and she'll never have to hear from me again. But you know as well as I do I ca'nt do her like that even if i tried.I call her once a week and that's fine and all.But my real question is what do I do to let her know I still care and I still Have strong feelings for her and I still love her more than life itself? I want to sit her down and tell her but I'm kinda afraid. Then, I want to write her a letter telling her about what I'm going through.I just don't know what to do anymore cause I have done things for her none of her other boyfriends have done for her. i've told her things she'll never expect to hear coming from a real n***a like me cause all the other dudes just want one thing from her and once they get it she'll be feeling used and like a hoe.I not going to do her wrong ahe knows it but it seems like she doesn't want to see it.I'm really running out of ideas here.Yeah!There are alot of other girls out there but can't no girl in this world fill her shoes.HOW CAN I TELL HER ABOUT THE WAY I FEEL ABOUT HER?I KNOW SHE DOESN"T LOVE THE DUDE SHE'S WITH NOW.... I"M JUST AFRAID I"LL LOOSE HER FOREVER AND I"LL NEVER BE ABLE TO GET HER BACK.PLEASE HELP ME.THANK YOU ALL SO VERY MUCH FOR STARTING THIS WEB SITE IF I WOULD HAVE NEVER FOUND YOU GUYS THERE'S NO TELLING WHAT I MIGHT HAVE DONE TO SHOW HER I LOVE HER SO MUCH.
I think your idea of writing a letter is an excellent idea.
You are very good with words and she will respond positively to that.
Tell her pretty much what you said to me about her. Your reasoning is good and she should hear it from you.
Women are usually eager to hear honest feelings like you have and you have nothing to lose by letting her know how you feel.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com