I cheated on him by kissing 2 other guys
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
My problem is that i was with this guy for about 8 months. He was perfect but I cheated on him by kissing 2 other guys throughout the relationship. He tryed to work things out but said he couldn't handle it anymore. Since there was no trust. He moved out a couple of days before Christmas. I found out that he had moved in with his next girlfriend already. We had been working together at the same casino and everytime I would see him he would leave the room and go outside and smoke. He had said that we would never be together again, but now I found out that his girlfriend broke up with him recently. He had called me a couple of days ago saying that I shouldn't be hanging out with this one guy that I had cheated on him with. That I should just be by myself. I really LOVE this guy and I regret that I cheated on him, now that I had lost him I realize what I had and want him back. Do you think he still has feelings for me and how should I go about trying to get him back? I'm willing to do anything that's how much I love this guy. Please help me I'm lost right now and mdon't know what to do. Thanx.
He sounds like he is interested in you again.
Try to call him once a week to ask him how he is doing, to let him know that you still care for him, and to maintain contact. Be cheerful, don't talk about your relationship, and limit your calls to 15 mins.
This will give him the clue that you are still interested and you can find out how interested he is.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com