Our views are completely opposite
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
We're always argiuing its to the point in whcih he always seems to tell me that he is getting sick of this and taht nothing is going to change between us when in reality it will. But i know these type of things take time. I don't now what to do anymore. He tells me that there is no talking to me that i just don't care or seem to understand when its not even like that. He also mentions that i put the blame on him 100% of the time. Our views are completely opposite. he thinks that i do something one way and i think the other. PLease help me work things out with him. I don.t want to loose him i want to make things work out for us.
If your views are completely opposite, as you say, then there is little hope for this relationship.
A good relationship relies on shared views and values for it to thrive. It is understandable that you two fight too much since you disagree on a lot.
The only way a relationship of this nature will last a while is if one or the other decides to give in on everything. But this is self-defeating in the long run and not worth trying.
My advice is to find someone new.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com