Why am I doing this ?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I have never cared for any one in my life not even family b/c they all did me wrong well the one person i did care for and really started to love that returned the feelings is leaving me (she has no choice in the matter she's 17 and her parents are moving) and i completly resent her for it and i am constantly starting fights with her an i don't know why i don't want her to leave me at all why am i doing this and how can i stop my actions and my feeling toward her and the sitiation?
You should be angry about the situation.
And it is natural that you will feel anger towards your friend.. after all she is leaving you (even though it isn't her fault). You should talking honestly with your friend and say things like "I hate the fact that you have to move."
Think of ways you can still keep in contact... the Internet, phone, and maybe even a visit.
Don't turn your friend into an enemy here at the last minute. That would be a terrible way to end your relationship. Enjoy every chance you have to be with her. Give her a nice going away present and both of you will feel good.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com