I really like this guy, but I barely know him cuz im really shy
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I really like this guy, but I barely know him cuz im really shy. Hes sorta shy around love and all that stuff 2, so its a bit harder. Even tho i avoid him, it kinda seems like he avoids me 2. does that mean likes me? well theres one problem. my frend said she heard him talkin 2 his frends how he doesn't like anyone. does that mean he doesnt like me, or could he b lying? my last problem is a little different. since im shy, i get really nervous, and at my piano concerts, it gets really bad. i dont feel too nervous, but i keep shaking uncontrolably. its kinda scary! how can i make myself get over that? it makes me mess up, so it needs 2 stop. if u could help, i would absolutly LUV it. THNX!
Both of you are shy and both of you avoid each other.
This means that nothing is going to happen between you unless you do something to change the situation. My advice is to do this. Whenever you see him in the hall or wherever, look him directly in the eyes, say in a clear voice "Hi" plus his name, and give him a big smile. Eventually you two will be talking as friends and who knows what will come after that.
Regarding your concerts. You should ask your piano teacher to give you advice. I am nervous in public too so can't give you good advice.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com