Sexy photo causes trouble
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I don't know whether i should be saying sorry:
A friend of mine who is basically like an agony aunt to me has become more open about his feeling. In the chat rooms we would flirt quite a lot but it has become nothing more. He recently text me asking me for photos of myself and as it was christmas i decided that i would take quite a sexy photo and I'm sorry that my boyfriend had to see it but it was on his own accord. I had left my mobile in his house when i was visiting however even when the battery was flat he thought that he would charge my phone up and read through all my messages. He found out about the photos and is now refusing to give me my phone back. He has also deleted all my messages and phone numbers from my phone!What am I meant to do, am I supposed to appolgise and forgive him for looking? please help me- SHOULD I SAY SORRY?
Your boyfriend shouldn't have invaded your privacy.
And you shouldn't have sent a sexy photo to another guy.
The best solution is for you to apologize for sending the photo and for him to apologize for invading your privacy. Then both of you forgive each other.
Good luck to both of you! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com