Two months ago, I started to have some special feelings towards her

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*** I am a Male to start with ***
I beg u to read my story no matter how long it is ... I am suffering from the very deep of my heart

I had a colleague @ university whom I used to go out with to study together for the last two quarters and now we graduated.

After that we got connected again, and we go out three times minimum a week, we also talk on the phone for many hours during the whole day and night.

Two months ago, I started to have some special feelings towards her, I feel that I need her to continue my life, and life will be impossible for me without her. but the problem is that me and her go out many many times a week and we talk for hours on the phone, but she considers me as a close friend, no more, no less ... and this is something annoying me.

Once I asked her, how do u feel towards me, she answered me that I am a great guy and so... and for many times i talked about me and her together .. For future ... she always thought that I am always joking and saying this just for fun.

The important thing is ... this girl has some kind emptiness in her life, she has no job... not studying anymore ... so if i am to think that she loves me and not saying that... i may be fooling my self, coz maybe she is dating me and going out with me just to spend time (coz many of her frnds are always busy).

Sometimes she starts cursing her luck... coz she doesn't have a Boyfrnd... and in front of me!! & when I tell her... what about me... she also considers this as a joke...

I know my story was long somehow ... but please... somebody help me ... i cant see my self... i feel my self in the middle of no where...
Her reactions started to let me stop thinking about her ... but loving her more and more Advice
You need to let her know that you have feelings for her in a manner that she will take seriously.

Tell her that you are "developing feelings" for her. If she tries to laugh it off you should tell her that you are sincere in your feelings.

Try to get her to reveal her feelings for you and if she isn't ready to, tell her you will ask her the next time.

Good luck! George

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