What would she do if I kissed her?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Hi, I need your help again. I went on a date with the girl I like and everything went well (I've alredy told you about that).
Today, I was talking to her on Msn Messenger, and I sent her one of those messages that pass trough many people, chain messages like we call them, asking her if I kissed her what would she do :A - stop B - Slap me C - continue.
She closed th conversation without even saying bye, and I can't stop thinking that I destroyed everything. Anyway, I wan't to know her better and if possible I wan't her to be my girlfriend, but I think and think and I can't get a subject to talk to her more.
First off, don't jump to the conclusion that she ended the conversation because she was upset.
It's possible that someone walked into the room right at the wrong time. Ask her the next time you have a chance whether you offended her with your question which was meant to be a joke. Pay close attention to her reply because she will let you know how she felt about it. Repeat back what she said to make sure you understood her correctly.
If she was offended be sure to apologize to make her feel better.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com