Boy 19 pressures girl 16
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Im 16 and my boyfriend is 19. I love just being with him and hanging out, we have so much fun. But since he is 19 that comes with all the sexual eurges from him. I have this problem that started with my last boyfriend that I let the guy do whatever he wants even if it is sex and I'll go along with it. I'm affraid this relationship will end up like the last one and it will just be totally sexual. I've brought it up to him and he says he doesnt want it to just be like that but he still starts and trys things all the time. I'm starting to feel like I dont want any part of the realtionship to be sexual, just because its just too much for me. I dont know what to do. I really like him and he is the first guy I've really gone out with. I've been with him for 2 months and definately want it to last longer. What should I do?
Stand your ground.
If you are not ready for something tell your boyfriend and expect him to respect your wishes. Don't do anything you don't feel comfortable with.
Explain this to him and if he is a decent person he will agree with you.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com