She's Stand-Offish in Public
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
Theres this girl i really love. but i dont know if im the only one she loves. shen were alone all is well. we kiss hug and everything. but when were around other people she chnages such as: i hug her and she backs off. she says she doesnt want to do that in public. when i first see her she doesnt even talk to me. like say hi. and when my other friend joe comes to hang with us. she kinda acts like she likes him. she asks if she can use his cell phone. she looks at him strange. she laughs at almoast everything he says. and she gives him stuff to see first then me. and she sometimes acts like she likes my other friend. she stares at him sometimes and then they start laughing. but like i said, when we are alone, she is perfect.. what do you think..? does she love me?
I think it's way too early to be talking about love in a situation like this. Yes, she likes you. She hugs and kisses you when you're around. And if she was just "shy" in public I could say that she didn't like being touchy-feely in public. That's a pretty common thing.
But instead of her just being shy, she's very flirtatious with other guys. She doesn't mind chatting it up and showing interest in them. With you she just says "hi". That doesn't sound right at all.
Are you guys boyfriend-girlfriend? If so then she should be treating you better in public instead of treating you like a "casual friend". If you're not boyfriend-girlfriend, then that is the next step you should be moving towards, long before you talk about "love"!
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com