My ex also asked me to give my son for adoption which I don't want.
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
My ex-bf left me coz his parents were against us even me and him had no problems before, then i found out I was pregnant and then he asked me to abort and stop contacting me during my pregancy.
Now i gave birth and my son is 3 months old, he knew abt our son and i informed his family as well but none of the family want to accept my son. My ex also asked me to give my son for adoption which I don't want.
What to do now ? I am trying my best to be a single mum but I am worried that my son will ask abt his father which he does not have...
Try to get your ex and his family see the baby. That is usually what converts them to be on your side. Ask them to a "six month" birthday party
When your son gets older maybe you'll be married by then and he will accept the man as his father. In any case, get photos of your ex and his family so you can show your son what his paternal side looks like.
Good luck! George
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