She keeps breaking up with me and trying to get me back when its convenient for her
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I need some advice! Me and my girlfriend have been with each other since 10th grade, we are now freshmen in College and we recently broke up. She feels like everytime we get in an argument that I blame everything on her. I love her 2 death and I know she loves me too and I want to be with her but I'm just hurt she keeps breaking up with me and trying to get me back when its convenient for her. She recently called me after a week and although it almost killed me I ignored it. What should I do? Am I going about it the right way?
The answer is in your question.
You said: "she keeps breaking up with me and trying to get me back when its convenient for her." This is exactly what your girlfriend is complaining about. You have blamed her for the whole situation.
In your question you didn't address whether her complaint is valid. My advice is to change your ways and stop blaming things on her. If you can't or won't do that, then you should stay broken up with her.
This is a problem that you are going to have to address so that your relationships can be successful.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com