My girlfriend likes to go into hot tubs with her friends in the nude

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My girlfriend likes to go into hot tubs with her friends in the nude (it is as far as I know, mainly with a couple that she is very good friends with and nothing sexual happens). We are both kind of "hippies" but nudity has never really been a part of my life, so in turn I get jealous thinking about her being in the presence of other people in the nude. I don't like feeling this way and whenever we talk about it, she gets VERY frustrated and says I am being controlling, in turn, I get afraid of what I am saying to her and can't think clearly, and sometimes say things I don't mean. I want to know if my jealous feelings are "normal", and what I can do to stop feeling this way. Advice
You probably won't like this answer... and your g/f may have already suggested it.

Go into the hot tub with her! You will be amazed at how liberating and pleasant it is. Especially on a cold night in the moonlight.

Typically, the women's breasts are under water (although not always) so there isn't a lot of sexual stimulation going on... except for the fun of the hot tub.

So why not relax those inhibitions and join her?

It is natural to have those jealous feelings but why not get over them. Even if you try it and don't like it you will know it and not fear it so much.

Good luck! George

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