A cheater and a liar
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
My boyfriend of almost two years cheated on me twice. I'm 20 and he is 21. The first time, he kissed a girl a year ago, but he stopped talking to her and never told me about it. The second time was about a month ago at a party when he was drunk, and he took a girl back to his house and had sex with her.
I found out about the girl he slept with when my friends told me, and at first he lied about it and said it wasnt true but then owned up to it. When I asked him if there were any more incidences, he then said he wanted to confess everything and be honest, so he told me about the girl he kissed a year ago. He says thats he's so sorry and regrets it, has learned his lesson and loves me more than anything, but I dont know whether to believe him or not since he has shown himself to be a cheater and a liar. Should we try to work it out?
I believe he has learned his lesson.
Whether you want to work it out is up to you. It depends on how you feel about him. Do you still love him? That's the important question to ask yourself.
What if you were in his shoes, how would you feel about it?
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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