Was it just a one night stand for him or does he want us back together again?
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I Wrote to you a couple of weeks ago under " He was jewish, I was muslim" and your advice to me for that situation was that i should just get over it. Since then something happened that made me really confused. since a week ago, he started being really friendly at work, we started talking about other stuff than work. But i thought it is just because it is 2 months after now and he already moved on and it all is becoming normal. till this weekend that we had the office christmas party. the whole night he was complementing me and at the end he invited me to go out with clubbing with him and his friends..i went, it was all like before he was holding my hand as if nothing had happened, we were dancing close,...and when he was dropping me up at home he asked if he could use my washroom and came up to my apartment. after he was done and i thought he was just gonna go, he started kissing me and we ended up sleeping together and he spent the night. we were a bit drunk at night so in the morning i thought maybe it is just the alcohol...but even in the morning we made love and he was sweet and told me that he had missed me. but we didn't discuss anything...i didnt' ask him what is happening...i thought it would be pushy and wrong thing to do. at work he is still acting nice but nothing else happened. I really want him back...what should i do? was it just a one night stand for him or does he want us back together again? heeeeelp...
Let me get this straight... a Muslim and a Jew were at a Christmas party.
Seriously though, I think it is too soon to figure out what is going on in his mind. You should ask him or wait and see. My guess is it was a holiday experience sparked by the good-will of the party and drinking.
He seemed serious before about his reservations.
However, wait and see.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com