Why would she even answer me on instant messanger?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
sorry to bother you again but i did what u said sort of instead of calling her i sent her and instant message last night. for the first time in 6 weeks we actually talked. however it was basically me aksing her how she was doing and how her new job was and how her thanksgiving was and all she was saying was basically how great eveyrhting is and how much she loves everything. for example i asked her if anything new was going on and her answer was all that matters is everything is great and thats all. we tlaked for maybe 10 mins then i said to her well im gonna go can i call you later or whatever and she says no im sorry but i dont want you to call me. now she is a verrrry stubborn girl things like that have happend before where we would fight not tlka for a few days then id b like do u wanna do soemthin or whatever and she would answer no i dont want to do anything with you but we alwyas would. but those were small fights after a few days. i mean why is she still saying that after 6 weeks and if she didnt want me to call her and she didnt wanna tlak to me then why would she even answer me on instant messanger. what should i do should i look at this as a positive thing becasue at least we tlkaed and jsut leave it alone for a while or should i b worried. is it possible becasue it was our first time tlaking in so long she jsut didnt wanna tlka on the phone like that or u think shes telling me its over. i dont know help me out if u can. thanks again
I think she is trying to tell you it is over.
But, you don't have to accept that. Wait another six weeks and give her a phone call. You have nothing to lose.
Just in case, you should be looking for a new girlfriend. There are a lot of them waiting out there wishing they had a bf for the holidays.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com