We have had trust issues over this past year
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I'm in a relationship for about two years now and I know that this is the man I want to spend the rest of my life with. We have, however, had trust issues over this past year due to my lack of communication and childish acts. I am trying to change...really trying. I have been totally honest with him about everything since we almost broke up a few months ago because I don't want to lose him. I tell him everything...I mean, everything! (and I plan to be this way from now on) Lately, I've been more vocal about how much I love him by hugging and kissing him more, saying "Ilove you" more, and sending little text messages to his phone while he's at work saying that I love him and I thank God for him staying in my life. Today, after sending a cute mushy text message, he told me that when I get mushy with him, he gets suspicious that I'm doing something wrong. That really upset me because I don't know if I should even bother TRYING so hard if he is just going to shut me down. I understand his feelings of mistrust because of our past, but I'm am trying to rectify it...I just feel like he's not letting me. Please help!
Since you tell him everything, tell him what you told me about what you are doing and why. That should relieve his anxiety.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com