About a month ago she decided she did not know what she wanted
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I have been dating the same girl for a little over two years now. I recently decided to move about an hour away to pursue school but have now realized how much i truley care about this girl. I told her I would be moving back up in about six months in hopes of helping the relationship. I have always been good to her and been the model boyfriend. However about a month ago she decided she did not know what she wanted. I told her i would wait for as long as it took for her decide because i really love her alot. The only problem is that it has been almost a month which obviously means shes not happy. How do i tell her that even though i said i would wait?!
You two need to have a talk.
Ask her to meet you for dinner followed by just driving around and talking.
Take advantage of the ride to have a long, deep, honest, caring, and trusting talk about where you both stand with regards to your relationship.
Remind her you will be returning in six months and that you still love her. Ask if there is anything you can do to help her. Hopefully this conversation will help change things in your favor.
I hope so! George
-- from George
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