He told me I was a disgusting slut and never again would I hear his voice or see his face
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I am 18 years old and have been in a relationship with the same person for 3 years (since I was 15) He is 22 years old. Recently, I came to college, met another guy, and cheated on my boyfriend. Through a series of events, my boyfriend found out. I denied it over and over, swearing up and down that it never happend. Finally, it was completely obvious and I couldn't take the guilt anymore, and I admitted it. He told me I was a disgusting slut and never again would I hear his voice or see his face.
I'm crushed and feeling completely alone and disgusted with myself. I know what I did was wrong, and there isn't another person on this earth I love more than my boyfriend. (well not my boyfriend anymore). I know I need to give him time and space. I want him to know how much I absolutely adore him and how terribly, undeniably sorry I am from the bottom of my heart. I'm just so lost. How do I go about things? and will he ever forgive me?
I can't answer whether he will ever forgive you.
To find out, you have a long path to follow. Start off by calling him once a week (even if he refuses to talk to you the first few times). Ask how he is, let him know you still care for him, and this will start some contact. He will have plenty of space and you will hopefully be started up with him again.
I wish you luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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