What bothers me the most is her AIM profile
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
hey, i have a big problem that im really worried about. lately my girlfriend and i have been having these little fights and some of them turn into bigger fights we've talked about them and were both worried about stuff happening except for she has been doing weird things that shes never done before. the one that bothers me the most is her AIM profile. she took out her little <3 *my name* she had for me in there. i asked her about this and she said that she took it out because she was fustrated with me. i asked her if she still was and she said a bit but not really any more. then she said that she just didnt really feel like putting it back in there right now. i asked her if it was because of me or just that she didnt feel like it and she said that she didnt feel like it. i wanted to ask her to be more specific but i didnt want to bug her about it any more. i really doubt she doesnt want to put in there because she just doesnt want to cause it isnt that hard to click a few mouse buttons and type a few things. she told me that i shouldnt worry about it and said that its not like shes goin to break up with me or anything but, her taking that out really hurt me. i mean she didnt even take it out when she was starting to get fustrated with me cause i couldnt kiss her cause of my nervousness. it took me well over a month to do that and she got pretty mad...so yeah idk whats up. we have all the little fight thingys kinda taken care of so i guess i just want your opinion and any advice you have. thank you so much again.
Keep reminding her how much it would please you if she would put back the comment in AIM.
Tell her it is very important to you and that it worries you that she removed it.
Also, on the kissing problem... be sure to ask her if she wants something more than kissing. Or, better yet just gently try doing something more than kissing. The more you do the less worry you will have about it. You need to practice your romance skills and make sure you are making her happy.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com